Trinity Rodman opens up about relationship with father Dennis: 'He’s not a dad. Maybe by blood, but nothing else'
When Trinity Rodman broke into NWSL stardom, the first thing many people learned about her was her status as the daughter of mercurial NBA Hall of Famer Dennis Rodman.
The child of a sporting great becoming a star is not an uncommon story in America. It usually features a naturally gifted child, allowed to blossom from a young age, with parents providing support at every stage. What was always made clear about Trinity Rodman, however, was that Dennis had very little to do with her greatness.
In public, Trinity would credit mother Michelle Moyer as her role model. Dennis and Moyer divorced in 2012, when Trinity was approximately 10 years old. Trinity's relationship with Dennis was always described as complicated, at best, with father enjoying a lifestyle hardly conducive to child-rearing and daughter experiencing long stretches without speaking to her father.
Then Trinity went on the "Call Her Daddy" podcast and for the first time laid bare her emotions about Dennis in an episode published Wednesday. She recalled her father refusing to give her mother any money to help them and being extremely controlling when he would grant them access to his money.
"My dad, he likes to be in control. So he would take us shopping, get us phones, do this, do that. 'Oh, I'm going to take you and your brother shopping,' and me and my brother are like, 'We don't want to go shopping, we just want money to go get In-N-Out after school with our friends.'
"So it was like, he wouldn't give us money to do that. He needed to have the control of bringing us shopping and swiping his own card. But if we asked, 'Hey, could we have $100 to go get food, to go to Claire's to get my ears pierced,' just little stuff like that? He was like, 'No. You're using me.'"
Trinity described living with her mother in a Ford Expedition "for a bit" and giving up on living with her father because of "parties 24/7" and him "bringing random bitches in." She remembers going to events like his jersey retirement and his Hall of Fame induction, being styled in hair and makeup, all while knowing that the image he was portraying was far from the truth.
"He loves the spotlight. He loves the cameras. He loves bringing his children on stage and being like, 'Oh, these are my kids.'"
And then there was what happened when Dennis wanted to be known as a father, when he showed up at one of Trinity's NWSL games unannounced in her first season in 2021. She saw and heard him in the crowd, having not seen or heard from him in months, and she started crying on the field.
"So I'm trying to play this soccer game and I'm crying. ... I'm crying. No one knows what the f***'s going on. ... And I'm like, 'Dude, my dad's here.'
"I finish that half and cry my eyes out in the locker room at halftime. And my coach was like, 'Do you want to play?' And I was like, 'Yeah, I want to win. Hello?' And I'm like, 'He's not going to take me from winning this either, f*** you!'"
Trinity set up the winning goal in the second half and didn't know how she was going to feel or what was going to happen once the final whistle blew, and she would have to interact with her father.
"The whistle blew and I was so mad, like, 'You took this happy moment from me. You f***ed with my head again.'
"And then I walk over, and again there's cameras everywhere. ... And all I did was cry.
"I walk over there, he grabs my head and I just start bawling in his arms, as if it's a daddy-daughter ..."
Trinity said the rest of their time together after the game was pretty "wholesome," and Dennis told her that he wanted to see her soon. She felt good enough about their interaction to post about "a new beginning" for both of them on social media. That was in 2021. After that, it was "radio silence." He never reached out to her, and she didn't see him again for over two years, until late 2023.
It was after that incident with her father in her rookie year that Trinity says she "lost hope in ever getting him back."
Trinity now stands as one of the brightest stars in soccer, with an Olympic gold medal, an NWSL championship, a CONCACAF championship, two FIFA Best XI honors and an NWSL Rookie of the Year award at only 22 years old. She is the face of the Washington Spirit, a team that reached the NWSL final this year and is projected by many to do the same in 2025, and part of a devastating attack for the USWNT with Mallory Swanson and Sophia Smith.
She's still working on her relationship with Dennis, but has a stark outlook on it. She doesn't have his number saved because he constantly changes it and never tells her. She believes he's an alcoholic and hearing his voice when he calls is "painful" due to both missing him and hearing how alcoholism has changed the way he speaks. In fact, Trinity says that every time they interact on the phone it "f***s me up." But she still takes his calls, even though they're rare.
"I answer the phone now for my conscience, to be like, he needed to hear my voice before anything else happens. That's why I answer the phone, not for me.
"He’s not a dad. Maybe by blood, but nothing else."