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Patriots' Tom Brady laments that youth sports have gotten too big

We don't have controversies like deflate-gate in youth sports, but that doesn't mean Tom Brady doesn't feel that we have let things run a little far with kids and athletics these days.

Brady spoke on his weekly spot on WEEI radio in Boston on Monday and had some interesting thoughts on youth athletics that maybe some adults who run such things should reconsider.

“What I remember from being in youth sports, everything was really localized," Brady said. "There was no travel teams. Well, there was a couple, but you really had to be the top, top kid to go on those teams. My parents always exposed us to different things, different sports. It was basketball when it was basketball season, it was baseball when it was baseball season. I didn’t play football ’til I was a freshman in high school. A lot of soccer. And there were just some [football] camps. But I just played in the neighborhood in our street with all the kids that we grew up with."

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Brady is a father now, and his children are ages 8, 5 and 2 now. The New England Patriots quarterback has competed on the highest of athletic levels, winning four Super Bowls, but recognizes that most young athletes will never play a sport professionally.

He also wonders if kids' motivation suffers when the intensity of youth sports is so high at such young ages.

“It’s just different now, experiencing it with my own kids. All the organized activities that you put them in," he said. "I made a comment for a while now, I hope my kids are late bloomers in whatever they do because they’re going to be exposed to so much at such an early time that, yeah, you do worry about what their motivation may be as they get older or if they feel like they’ve been in something for so long and it’s been hyper-intense and hyper-focused for so long, I think that can wear out a young individual, a young teenager. It’s just hard, because all the parents are doing it, it seems. The competition, it feels like it starts so early for these kids, whether it’s to get into college, or to get into the right high school, or the right elementary school."

It wasn't that way when Brady came through the youth ranks. He was a late bloomer for sure, appearing to be a better baseball prospect than a football player. We know how that ended up.

For Brady, the idea of kids — his or anyone else's — playing sports is as much about growth, personal development and maturity as it is about landing a pro contract. Just don't tell that to the parents who have delusions of grandeur, the ones who seem to want to live vicariously through their kids' athletic achievements.

“I don’t know how it’s taken a turn, but sometimes it’s nice just for kids to be kids," Brady said. "At least that’s just from what I remember when I was growing up. I think that was a great opportunity for the kids to develop lots of parts of their personality. And certainly for me that’s what I found, ultimately I found something that I loved to do at a young age. The more you’re exposed to, I think the better opportunity is for all kids to figure out what they really want to do in life.”

What a refreshing, novel idea. Too bad most people will ignore it.

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Eric Edholm is a writer for Shutdown Corner on Yahoo Sports. Have a tip? Email him at edholm@yahoo-inc.com or follow him on Twitter!